Why do gay guys give good head? Because they have a cock and they know what feels good! - It's an old joke that is often used by gay guys to get straight boys into bed, and it's amazing how often it actually works.
Oral sex or Fellatio is great for both the guy giving and receiving, it can bring a guy to a mind shattering orgasm within minutes or can prolong the excitement for hours and hours, although the guy giving may end up with lock jaw!
But if you are new to gay sex and a bit nervous about giving head what should you know about to give really great blowjobs?
The cardinal rule of oral sex is:
Mind the teeth!
there is nothing worse than having a mouth full of teeth scraping and bumping against your most precious and sensitive organ of your body (unless of course you are into pain but that's a totally different section).
The first thing that you have to think about when giving head is that there is a huge difference between blowing a cut cock and an uncut one. Read the section on Your Penis to get a low down on this to find out where the sensitive places are on each cock.
If you are receiving oral sex, always make sure that your cock is clean, either by washing before sex, or giving it a quick clean with some warm water. There is nothing worse than going down on a smelly cock!
Basic Tips and Techniques
There are a heap of different positions that you can suck and be sucked. The different positions will also give you more angle or leverage to get down his penis.
This submissive position is probably one of the most popular positions in which to give head. The guy getting blown stands up or kneels on a bed. You kneel between his legs with your head at the level of his crotch. From this position you can suck on his cock and he can gently or even roughly hold or grab your head.
A variation on this position id the skull fuck, where the guy keeps hold of your head and with his hands on either side of your head and fucks your mouth. For a novice cocksucker this can be quite difficult as the guy can become very aggressive and you may not be able to take all of his cock (see Deepthroating).
the classic 69 is a great position where you can both give and receive oral sex at the same time. the side 69 is where you both lie down facing each other, with your heads in each other's crotch. You then take each other's penis's in your mouth and go for it!
The Top and bottom 69 is a variation on the theme where one guys lies on his back and the other guy lies down on top of him. This can be a bit of an awkward position as the guy on the bottom cannot always get enough leverage to suck the other guys' cock. And it is also penetrates quite far down into the throat.
The classic lying down position is where the guy receiving head lies down on the bed and the other guys kneels above him fucking his face. This can cause some strain on the he neck and it is better to use a pillow or something or let the guy sit up a bit.
The guy receiving oral sex may be sitting on a chair or sofa and the guy giving the blow job is sitting next to him. He leans over and takes the cock in his mouth and suck on it from that position. This is a good position gor a relative beginner as the guy receiving head cannot thrust up into his mouth.
The most common of all requests for guys is for their partner's to deep throat their penis, as the throat muscles can add to the pleasure of the head!
If you are trying to give head and want to try deepthroating always make sure that you can breathe through your nose, or you may end up getting your oxygen flow cut off!
Deepthroating is all about relaxing and getting the position right. You need to have a look at how his penis curves to work oout what positions is best to take. If his penis curves upwards then you are better off getting in a 69 position so it can curve down your throat rather than up. And if the penis curves downwards then kneeling in front of him is a good way to go.
Basically the mechanics of deepthroating mean that the penis needs to curve down your throat past your gag reflex.
Once you have mastered getting his penis in your throat there are a few things you can try.
With Deepthroating practice does make perfect and the more you practice the easier you will be able to take cock! Not all cocks can be deepthroated, some cocks simply are too big or too rigid to give that little bit of a bend, and these are just nigh on impossible to deepthroat!
Spit. Swallow or Neither?
Now this is a very personal and important issue, do you spit swallow or not let a guy cum in your mouth. With oral sex there is a risk of catching sexually transmitted diseases, everything from Gonorrhea to HIV. Letting a guy cum in your mouth is very risky behavior especially if he is a one night stand or a trick!
Basically though if you are in a monogamous relationship then it is up to you to decide what you do..... If you want to be safe then use a condom when giving head, the risk is low, but it is there!
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