I am a thirty something married gay boy living in Sydney, almost on top of the gay scene but not in it!
Why Sometimes blue?, because I love blue, but also I am sometimes blue :)
The ebbs and flows of blogging
Blogs are like the waves on a beach it seems.
A couple of my favorite blogs are coming to an end, Completely Naked & Single in the City have both decided that they will call it a day and move on.
While other blogs like The Great Cock Hunt, Synthetic Ego and others are no longer posting. In fact over at Synthetic Ego the blog seems to have lost almost ten months of blog posts, go figure that one!
Other blogs like Chaos disappeared entirely after their online & real worlds collided, whilst other blogs just became private.
Everyone blogs for totally different reasons, some to work their way through an event, process or fetish (like Jared at Completey Naked).
I don't really have a reason for blogging, I do enjoy the geekiness of blogging and I do enjoy the whole openness that technology has allowed. Everything from twitter to facebook that provides such an amazing connection with people that simply wasn't possible a few years ago.
Case in point was Saturday night when I twittered that I was on a podium at Arq nightclub Margeaux smsed me back at 3am to say hi because he had read my twitter and knew I was still up!
Through blogging and this site I have met and made some amazing friends and found out just how small the whole world is. When people living two minutes away know your friends on the other sides of the world it's a pretty amazing coincidence.
I know that a lot of friends (and my boy) read the blog on a regular basis. In fact for some friends who live overseas it's the way they keep up with what we are up to. In fact one friend who we saw yesterday on Gaydar Corner (he wasn't meeting a hookup but it the corner for so many gaydar meets) told us that he knows what we have been up to because his partner reads my blog!
No I am not going to stop blogging, I enjoy it and I don't do it for other people I do it for me!
I am though looking at the site as a whole and have a serious think about whether I should let the site be or change it or archive the entire thing.
I haven't had the time to properly promote the website in the last year nor have I really put a lot of effort into getting content up online. The waning usage statistics are a good indicator of my lack of effort as are my decreased costs of web hosting.
I am in an interesting quandary really.
This site has been going for eight years and I have changed it many many times, but by the same token as bloggers finishing their blogs, is it time to scale back the site to only my blog?
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2 Comments:
sweetheart, don't quit. its nice to know there's another rat out there having trashy weekends ;)
x
Drew, honestly I hope that you never reduce your site to just your blog. Your site and blog mean so much to the gay community. I still remember the day when I came across you site, it was just hours before that all the pieces of the physiological puzzle had finally been put together and I had the realization, "Wow, I'm gay, so what does that mean?" and can you believe it, I do a search and your site is the first on I decide to check out. Drew, your site opened up a brand new outlook on the world to me. With its advice (haha I can't believe I'm going to say this but the Gay Sex Guide came in quite handy for my first time.) and its stories which inspired me and gave me an inner happiness in knowing that I too may find love like that someday. (Haha and oh I can't forget that huge collection of eye candy that used to be on the site. When I was 14 I thought that was absolutely hot!) Oh, and Drew lastly but not least, your a roll-model to younger generations. When I first realized I was gay I didn't have any idea what that meant or anybody to look up to but in some weird way you unknowably helped fix that. You showed that being gay is just as normal as anything else about a person’s life, and that once I grew older I could live a happy meaningful life. For all that you have done I must say thank you and please don't ever shut it all down!
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