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Sex Toys

Sex toys are not just the realm of women, they are hugely popular with gay men and there are lots of different toys to choose from. Sex toys for men range from lifelike dildos to more unusual things such as restraints and slings.

There is something incredibly naughty and forbidden about sex toys that make even the most open person blush and giggle about them. But so many men have at least one type of sex toy in their cupboard and drawer that they are almost de-rigor to own at least one!

Don't discount sex toys as only something that other people use, they can be an extremely fun and exciting way of spicing up your sex life, and they can also help you to better relate to your own sexuality.

Sex Toy Rules

  • Never Share Sex Toys between partners, if you do use a condom on it!
  • Always wash your sex toys after use in warm soapy water (if rubber, metal etc.)
  • Never put anything in your ass that you can't remove
  • Never use anything that can break like glass etc.
  • Don't insert edible items inside - they can rot and cause enormous infections
  • Ditto on anything alive like a gerbil
  • Don't use anything flammable

The most common sex toys are described below and at the end of the page is a link to a few sex shops where you can discretely make your purchase online!


DildoBy far the most common and first thought of sex toy is the good old fashioned dildo. They come in all manner of shapes, sizes, colours and actions. Some are just long thin tools that are hard and inflexible, while some are molded off real penises such as the new Lukas Ridgestone dildo with retractable foreskin. Some vibrate, some squirm and some even spurt liquid!

Dildo's are used to give yourself or your partner anal pleasure. Always use lubricant with dildos and never share them between partners. Also many of the dildos made are for women and are quite hard and inflexible, while a lot of the dildo's made for men are more flexible and softer made out of rubber. As a general rule if you are on the he market for a dildo choose something that feels like a cock and not something that looks like a small missile.

Butt Plugs

Butt PlugButt Plugs are used to help stretch the ass for penetration and also to give anal pleasure. They come in a variety of shapes and sizes, from quite thin long probes all the way up to very large cone shaped devices. They almost always have some sort of large base that prevents them from disappearing up the recipients ass and also making them fit flush against the ass when inserted.

Some guys also use buttplugs under their clothes so they are getting anal stimulation all through the day. Although this can cause uncontrollable muscle spasms and can be quite dangerous.

Anal Beads

Anal Beads are another wonderful anal sex toy. They are used for anal stimulation and are inserted in the the ass. They look like a bunch of balls stuck together with either a cord or a long probe. As they are inserted into your ass they cause pleasure as they pop through the anal sphincter and massage the prostate gland.

Cock Rings

Cock RingCock Rings are used to prolong the time to orgasm and help to keep the penis hard during sex. Cock rings can come in a variety of types including metal rings, rubber and leather. The cock ring is placed over the cock and balls when the penis is still flaccid. It works by constricting the blood flow from the penis and balls when the penis is hard. Be careful with cock rings because size can actually be quite deceptive and putting ion a smaller cock ring and then not being able to get it off can be an extremely painful and uncomfortable experience!

Other types of sex toys include:

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